Undeniably, wherever you are, money is always meant. In the current era, almost all are rewarded with money. Money is often a source of argument between the couple. There is a wise proverb says, happiness can not be bought with money. But if the happiness with the couple until disturbed just because of money, of course no one wants it?
There are a few tips you can use:
1. First of all take time, invite your partner to talk, equate the perception of the concept of money, what he thinks about money?, As a means to have fun, or facilities that can provide security? Discover, how you and your spouse spend money; "spendthrift" or "thoroughly"? Then once you understand each and equalize the perception of the concept of this money, you will be easier to discuss, share your feelings, your view about money. If you already have the same view regarding the use and ways to use money wisely, disputes over money could certainly be avoided if you have the same view.
2. Then spend some special time to discuss your attitude to discuss with your spouse about finances together. This includes, style you and your shopping partner. Because you and your partner easily get the money, you and your spouse may include the always expensive purchases without regard to or not, it's been a priority or not. In the meantime, having difficulty making money, when shopping, you should always check the price. Try not to difference of opinion can make you and your spouse disagrees, of course, would interfere with your shopping and your partner.
3. If you and your spouse are compact about shopping, then make the budget (about making your family's financial budget can be read on my writing first with the family budget label). Calculate how much income you and your spouse, the amount of the bills every month, and decide who will be responsible for paying them off. Then agree how much money spent for each expenditure, especially for entertainment such as vacations, clothing, film, the streets and eating outside the home. Try to be fair not to one party feels burdened.
4. Learn financial tips from the experienced. One of them maybe you can learn from financial experts or from next of kin can also, as a joint account for shared expenses. Use the account to pay the bills. Keep you and your spouse can fill this post on a regular basis every month.
5. Whatever you feel about money, there is still one very important thing, which you should not ignore: long-term goals. Think about the future for both. Make a wish list which will be achieved both, for example, have a dream house and private cars, two holidays abroad, pension funds, or education savings for children.
6. According to financial experts, the principle who had the biggest income required to pay the largest part of the division of expenditure had to be done. If this is your deal, do this duty with pleasure and patience. If you later have improved financial condition will also bring positive results also for your relationship together. You object to this principle? Nothing was no other way. You and your spouse can make the appropriate financial solutions, fair and mutually agreed.
7. Costs such as sick unexpected repairs to the car suddenly broke down also require attention. If you do not immediately find a solution, will easily make you and your spouse argue. For that, start setting aside an emergency fund, so that if a problem occurs, you have the funds ready to use.
8. Talk heart to heart to find a solution. Try to be sensitive and wise. If someone feels wrong and pressed, he would be more difficult to talk to. If that happens, it would be difficult to find a solution together.
9. If you have not reached agreement, subject to spinning without end base, it may be time to ask the opinion of others more experienced. Can be close friends to engage a financial adviser who would be happy to assist you both.
10. Although the contents of the wallet in a critical condition and thin, remember to remain together romantically. Financial problems can make the heart is stressed, but with a fixed share the love with hugs and kisses did not need a big cost, is not it? Take advantage of times of challenge like this to give each other strength. It's time to show to your partner, you will always be with him in a happy and hard. One thing that also needs to remember is happy because you still have each other.
There are a few tips you can use:
1. First of all take time, invite your partner to talk, equate the perception of the concept of money, what he thinks about money?, As a means to have fun, or facilities that can provide security? Discover, how you and your spouse spend money; "spendthrift" or "thoroughly"? Then once you understand each and equalize the perception of the concept of this money, you will be easier to discuss, share your feelings, your view about money. If you already have the same view regarding the use and ways to use money wisely, disputes over money could certainly be avoided if you have the same view.
2. Then spend some special time to discuss your attitude to discuss with your spouse about finances together. This includes, style you and your shopping partner. Because you and your partner easily get the money, you and your spouse may include the always expensive purchases without regard to or not, it's been a priority or not. In the meantime, having difficulty making money, when shopping, you should always check the price. Try not to difference of opinion can make you and your spouse disagrees, of course, would interfere with your shopping and your partner.
3. If you and your spouse are compact about shopping, then make the budget (about making your family's financial budget can be read on my writing first with the family budget label). Calculate how much income you and your spouse, the amount of the bills every month, and decide who will be responsible for paying them off. Then agree how much money spent for each expenditure, especially for entertainment such as vacations, clothing, film, the streets and eating outside the home. Try to be fair not to one party feels burdened.
4. Learn financial tips from the experienced. One of them maybe you can learn from financial experts or from next of kin can also, as a joint account for shared expenses. Use the account to pay the bills. Keep you and your spouse can fill this post on a regular basis every month.
5. Whatever you feel about money, there is still one very important thing, which you should not ignore: long-term goals. Think about the future for both. Make a wish list which will be achieved both, for example, have a dream house and private cars, two holidays abroad, pension funds, or education savings for children.
6. According to financial experts, the principle who had the biggest income required to pay the largest part of the division of expenditure had to be done. If this is your deal, do this duty with pleasure and patience. If you later have improved financial condition will also bring positive results also for your relationship together. You object to this principle? Nothing was no other way. You and your spouse can make the appropriate financial solutions, fair and mutually agreed.
7. Costs such as sick unexpected repairs to the car suddenly broke down also require attention. If you do not immediately find a solution, will easily make you and your spouse argue. For that, start setting aside an emergency fund, so that if a problem occurs, you have the funds ready to use.
8. Talk heart to heart to find a solution. Try to be sensitive and wise. If someone feels wrong and pressed, he would be more difficult to talk to. If that happens, it would be difficult to find a solution together.
9. If you have not reached agreement, subject to spinning without end base, it may be time to ask the opinion of others more experienced. Can be close friends to engage a financial adviser who would be happy to assist you both.
10. Although the contents of the wallet in a critical condition and thin, remember to remain together romantically. Financial problems can make the heart is stressed, but with a fixed share the love with hugs and kisses did not need a big cost, is not it? Take advantage of times of challenge like this to give each other strength. It's time to show to your partner, you will always be with him in a happy and hard. One thing that also needs to remember is happy because you still have each other.
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